Pessimistic or realistic
In fact, your eyes in the dark when will the bright ...
I have a lot of friends have reminded me that my way of handling things in their view, there are some overly pessimistic, embodied in handling a matter, even if I do everything possible to have to do, I will not for others said "This time I will succeed" and the like, then. So, I used another wet blanket, some even say that, and I, after a time, their emotions will become very depressed.
I always their words to remember, and then in-depth thinking. In fact, I would like to say to them: I am not pessimistic, I'm just a very conformist realist.
Suffice it to say, its each to deal with things before, "Hope for the best, better than the most devout attitude to Prepare for the worst." In this way, when doing this, you will most likely normal state of mind to do, and not give yourself too much pressure, to suffocation; in the treatment and relationship to others, you will be completely honest, rather than put on a mask, in order to perfect relationships to deceive themselves and each other, the last deeply hurt yourself; things done, if successful, you will like to get a pleasant surprise. incomparable joy, if it fails, you will not be the same as falling from heaven to hell feel Wan Nian emptiness.
In fact, sometimes we are not pessimistic, we do not want dropped from the fifty sixth floor, we want to just be honest with themselves and others, we want only the real face of everything that surrounds them, we want to just a conformist realists.
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Little more understanding, but also have to understand others, people want to get an accurate answer or not, can or can not, rather than not know, not sure, Maybe ...
I would say that an affirmative answer, but not now, now I say more. I have been trying, I will not give up ...
Well, it is! We can do is redouble our efforts to be worthy of our own.
The judge he was not an easy thing to do a simple realist does not seem simple. Course there will be an ideal, hope, emotions, realism should not be optimistic and pessimistic moderation.
Well, everyone has their own method of dealing with others, realistic Ye Hao
Oh, now look at other people's ideas are very strange ...
Sometimes deal with some of the things to do for the worst.
That cat's eye scary ah ~~
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I tell you, is a typical pessimist. Reality is too cruel, fear and finally by the greater injury.
Well, thank you!
Often stopping after ~
Look at the issue should stand on a different perspective to think about.
The reality is cruel, and think to stand in a different point of view.
The psychological power of suggestion is very powerful.
Yes, reality does not pessimistic, but occasionally fantasy is also good :)
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