Sorry, we can have tea with you?

Posted by on 20 26 2011 in topic | 17 comments

Friendship, is the topic of our lives.

Today, I am in the country's best friend D and I were talking on Skype, saying that anyway, no matter what happens, she was always on my side, always support my every move, I said to her I: Obviously, we are close friends, we are no words to say friends, the feelings between us is not just every Saturday morning with the park so simple. We are close friends, we share their most profound ideological friends. But I can not do this to all my friends, this could not help but make me think: friends graded you?

Perhaps my thinking is different from the traditional Chinese Datong thinking, everyone get it? Whatever our differences, whether we have any character differences, we can do best friend? No, but perhaps the most junior friends is possible.

Junior Friends (circus): Maybe two weeks contact time, about a coffee shop or teahouse say is not important or unimportant on the other side, the facts, and gossip: these friends may be just for decompression or to fill certain gaps exist. Between us and them friendly exist only in the respect between each other.

Friends (film): each interest to go to the cinema once, such a friend you can share experience and experience in work or study, but do not involve private life, because they did not guard your secret obligations and awareness, in other words , they are all mouth. Behind the scenes gossip is perhaps one of their daily entertainment.

A good friend (job you made ​​did not?): OK to, they know your daily homework. This shows that you have the same life path, they see in your everyday life. They know that your emotions, they can understand the comfort you experience pain, but they do not know your pain. With them we feel comfortable and happy, but inevitably some small friction.

Best friend: This type of friends we can be completely open up about their own lives and emotions, and even some unspeakable problems with our family, they will know before we open our heart, we do not care to do something, they can support us!

So, I think the friend level depends on our friends to share their feelings, and not just depend on us and they enjoy with the amount of material pleasure and spiritual compensation, after all, the friend is not a rubber doll, you need when "on call".

The future we want to deny that we do not want or can not afford friendship, perhaps we do not need to say a harsh word, we just say: "Sorry, we can have tea with?

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  1. jializ ChinaGoogle ChromeWindows | 02/26/2011 at 14:39

    I think a friend, regardless of level, is faced with different friends, and we show different in front of some friends I was demure in front of some friends I was sturdy, but they are real

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  2. evacuee ChinaGoogle ChromeWindows | 02/28/2011 at 5:51

    So hard to achieve the standard of his best friend, after all, the heart of every man there is so little secret :)

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  3. Dance ChinaMozilla FirefoxWindows | 02/28/2011 at 4:05 p.m.

    Different people have different definition, in my opinion, friends should not have to prepare for two people of my closest window heart.

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  4. I do not care ChinaMozilla FirefoxWindows | 02/28/2011 at 18:44

    Each "week" together go to the cinema again?

    Girls Fortunately, if the two men went into the cinema would be rather awkward.

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  5. Lotus ChinaInternet ExplorerWindows | 03/01/2011 Make at 8:43

    In fact, the real can always accompanied a close friend of attitude we go few ~~

    So always treasure the feelings of those hard-earned

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  6. Sean FranceMozilla FirefoxMac OS | 03/01/2011 Make at 11:50

    Jializ : Since it is the same level of friends, why should the different treatment?

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  7. Sean FranceMozilla FirefoxMac OS | 03/01/2011 Make at 11:51

    _AT_ evacuee : good idea! I said a close friend to generalize the

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  8. Sean FranceMozilla FirefoxMac OS | 03/01/2011 Make at 11:51

    @ dancing : Well, I think if the friends of the standard is relatively high, life will be more quality

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  9. Sean FranceMozilla FirefoxMac OS | 03/01/2011 Make at 11:52

    @ I do not care : There is nothing, last week I and a boy go to the movies

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  10. Sean FranceMozilla FirefoxMac OS | 03/01/2011 Make at 11:52

    @ Lotus : Yes, I think then one or two very good close friend of a lifetime

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  11. sherry ChinaSafariMac OS | 03/03/2011 at 01:58

    ~ ~ A friend points registration, yes ah yes ah, a student can have a few friends of the "circus" level, time, etc., to stay in the "side" or "heart" just close friends

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  12. Sean FranceMozilla FirefoxMac OS 03/04/2011 at 07:28 [ microblogging ] | 03/04/2011 at 07:28

    The _AT_ sherry : I think can retain close friends is not easy, friendship and love are not easy to operate.

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  13. Firm ChinaGoogle ChromeWindows | 03/07/2011 at 10:08

    It seems I can define a good friend best friend best friend one.

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  14. Emigrated ChinaMozilla FirefoxWindows | 03/08/2011 at 10:27

    Hey, life is a rare close friend

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  15. Sean FranceSafariMac OS 03/10/2011 at 22:09 [ microblogging ] | 03/10/2011 at 10:09 p.m.

    Firm, : one is enough, I think, Oh ~~

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  16. Maxsailor ChinaMozilla FirefoxWindows | 04/25/2011 at 15:39

    Uh ~ looks like your template in FF4.0 under the bottom of the dislocation.

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  17. Sean FranceMozilla FirefoxMac OS | 04/29/2011 at 15:03

    The _AT_ Maxsailor : I have been aware, but I do not know how to repair the end of May, say that again, this time not empty ah

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