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Pessimistic or realistic

Posted by Sean on two 20, 2009 in. topic | 14 comments

In fact, your eyes in the dark when will the bright ...

I have a lot of friends have reminded me that my way of handling things in their view, there are some overly pessimistic, embodied in handling a matter, even if I do everything possible to have to do, I will not for others said "This time I will succeed" and the like, then. So, I used another wet blanket, some even say that, and I, after a time, their emotions will become very depressed.

I always their words to remember, and then in-depth thinking. In fact, I would like to say to them: I am not pessimistic, I'm just a very conformist realist.

Suffice it to say, its each to deal with things before, "Hope for the best, better than the most devout attitude to Prepare for the worst." In this way, when doing this, you will most likely normal state of mind to do, and not give yourself too much pressure, to suffocation; in the treatment and relationship to others, you will be completely honest, rather than put on a mask, in order to perfect relationships to deceive themselves and each other, the last deeply hurt yourself; things done, if successful, you will like to get a pleasant surprise. incomparable joy, if it fails, you will not be the same as falling from heaven to hell feel Wan Nian emptiness.

In fact, sometimes we are not pessimistic, we do not want dropped from the fifty sixth floor, we want to just be honest with themselves and others, we want only the real face of everything that surrounds them, we want to just a conformist realists.